Why does it feel like he will be happier without me?

Because his performance after the breakup is loud, fast, and visible — and your healing is slow, quiet, and internal. The contrast tricks you. The performance is not joy. The joy you are working toward is happening underneath.

Will he change for the new woman?

Almost never, at this level of abuse. He is not doing the deep, painful, humbling work real change requires. The new woman will see the same patterns once the love-bombing ends. You did not fail to be the right woman. He failed to be a healthy man.

How long will my healing take?

God's timeline is not the secular timeline. He can restore at His own speed. Women often experience compression — years of healing happening in months once the access is gone and the Holy Spirit has full room to move.

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